The
SURE and ALL TIME EFFECTIVE measure that have proved to help to eliminate
issues in relationship and also revitalize love
Relationship between the opposite agenda is
very interesting and enjoying, but its a pity that it faces some difficult
challenges at times, which might include; argument, neglect, confusion, insult,
assault, combat, bulling, and many more .
Fortunately, there are some things which can be done to rescue and
correct the abnormality in the union no matter the length of time it might be
lingering. The following are attitudes that have been tested to arrest most of
the common co motions in relationship.
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The number one
things is THE ISSUE of MUTUAL understanding. To you my reader this might not be
new to you but what I want you to know is that mutual understanding I am
talking about here is not limited to knowing each others characters alone, but
also goes to the level of critically mastering your partners attitude , by this
I am not saying watching him/her whenever he is talking or whatever, but in
your conversation(s) , take for instance if you are together and your spouse
now started telling you what someone does to him/her to you, what I want you to
know here is that, if he's talking about how he felt about what that person
does maybe negatively, your spouse is telling you(indirectly) that if you do
the same it will felt bad also. Vice versa to the time when he tell you what
they do to him that is interesting this is what I called mutual understanding.
The above discussion also account for the advantages of lengthy talk among
partners rather than 'clip' chatting.
§ Sacrifice, in fact may I tell you? There are enormous
attribute related to this rather than the generally known ones that everyone
known about. By the word sacrifice I
mean if you are having some bad trait, habit, attitude, behaviour, character,
ways of life, personal philosophy, in yourself that you know your spouse will
not like, may not dream of his/her spouse having it. Its really appealing and
advisable for you to please sacrifice
it(quit doing it) for the sake of your partner in order for you to have a promising
time together. Though this might seems impossible but the fact is that it might
cost you more than you can afford if it is not dealt with. The way to know
whether your lover love such attitude or not; is to listen carefully to what
he/she said of people of 'like'(the same) attitude around you or him/herself.
However it might be anger, smoking , grudges, hatred, malice, un contented,
non-appreciative, poor fashion style, poor conversation habit, lack of
respect, stingy, uncaring, neglect, not
showing him/her love as you should, and every other things( you may not like if
someone does to you is also what your partner also dislike). It might even extend to the level of your EX
(if any) you need to sacrifice them by forgetting them in your heart and let go
of all memories that brought your thought back to them. Know this things that
if they are meant to stay they will stay, also for them to be your EX, they are
now 'EXPIRED FELLOW'
§ GRATITUDE, as the saying goes that "one good
turn deserves another" so also was how the practice of "gratefulness"
takes a lion share in ANY relationship. One African proverb also said
"well done , is the fuel of inspiration of laborers’" . For better
understanding let me give you a brief illustration, not long ago I happened to
be rendering a service for two client , one usually pay, but the other also paY
me but also express a sense of knowing the value of what I did for them, let me
tell you I am well please With the second to the first simply because they
express their gratitude showing the level of how they have valued my service.
Like the above example is it in ALL HUMAN RELATIONSHIP, like I always said that
"having an attitude of GRATITUDE is a great treasure" so you as a
partner to someone and who seek to having a ALL-TIME-HONEY relationship must have
a strong appreciative attitude.
Talking about
this, you might start at any level ranging from appreciating your spouse for
the MOST simplest thing done for you like if he/she gave you a call-try to say
thank you, if he give you gift-don't forget to reciprocate with your
gratitude,has he/she ask you out-say thank you, has he/she corrected you-never
forget "thank you dear" (though its little and simple but done more
magic) did he/she takes a picture of you?-reply with your smile and word of
gratitude. Whenever he/she tells you he loves you- your best gift to respond is
thanks(your gratitude) the others are known better by you. However, whatsoever HE/SHE DOES please ALWAYS
show a sense of gratitude this will
§ Unlock for you the power for him/her to do more
better.
§ (2)Have a sense of been appreciated.
§ Give HIM/HER a sense of been responsible in your
life, etc.
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