Truth be told, just as its necessary to do necessary
things before success is achieved so also its required to do some things that
makes a love the love that never fails, this is because ‘all good things are
never free, and all free things are not always good’, so also is necessary to
do the following tips for a lovely love between you and your partner or any
other person.
1) Abusive words: just as it was when you wake up and
someone call you a thief or rubber how will you feel, so also it feels when you
accuse your partner with an abusive word early in the morning. What you need to
know here is that one of the greatest thing that influence how your days will
be is how you start your day, that is your first word, the first thought that
comes into your mind, the first thing you hear
when the day break, the first move you make. That is why the greatest
thing you must avoid when dealing with your partner or anyone beside you is
abusive word, because you need to know that there is magic in early hour
activities because it used to have deep impact on human impulse that is why
they recommend that early morning study is good for students’, so as it is
effective to read and assimilate in the morning is also intense to face someone
with hard words as day starts.
2) Reversal Of Previous Day Issue Or Misdeeds: just as if the other one (abusive
words) is not alone, the other one is reversal of previous day issue. How this
does happens? Let say you happened to have been offended by your partner day
before, the greatest mistake you can make is to make a reversal of it the
following day, even if you wanted to do it, it should be done in love the bible
say “say the truth in love”, and how can it be done in love? When dealing with
other issue, bring it up logically and with lesser hard words. Even when you
are furious don’t forget kind words, kind words cost than gold but is free.
Just as you know, you are dealing with human being and not a robot or statue.
However how you handle people will determine how they will react to you, say
hard words and see how unfriendly people are, say kind words and see how caring
people are.
3) Neglect Of Small Gesture: one thing you need to know here is that ‘in life small things
matters than you ever think’ and examples of small gestures that matters is
greetings, appreciation of previous day good deeds, a hug, a smile, etc.,
therefore it’s a bad habit to neglect little of kindness, never let a day goes
by without doing this things. A day with small gestures is always great but a
day without small gesture is hell on earth. The greatest that can help you do
this better is to see the beauty in your partner (or people around you) see
them as someone who is worthwhile in your life, make it a duty to extend a hand
of kind words, action, act, to them on a daily basis.
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